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90 after "hunger": some people live frugally to buy brand-name bags 90 in the eyes of the "hunger" and "hunger aesthetics" bring us a look at the society with their own unique perspective — little time to have a favorite toy as the ideal of life, we would meet the ideal realization; grow up, monthly income of more than 5000 yuan, can love to buy more things when suddenly feel happy; when what is not the lack of career and love family money, we often lack of direction, we are no longer hungry". Everywhere the "hunger" does not know when to start, the family elders are keen to say to us, where to go today, received a free gift. Without them, we know that those who sell drugs or health products vendors again, they are free of gimmicks. "White, who is not willing to do, like to discount supermarket, there are always people early in the morning up in front of the booth. In the heart of the onlookers, this may be "cheap", also may be "Chinese evil". The elders have experienced the age of material scarcity, and some people call it "the sequelae of material deficiency"". Hungry, afraid of poverty, that fear has gone deep into the bone marrow. Whether it’s promotion or marketing, free gimmicks just hit the older generation’s soft underbelly, and their hunger comes from extreme hunger. After 90 may never understand these, but there is also a sense of hunger". Apple stores all night queuing young people, every kind of VIP exclusive VIP, and also want to buy a LV package…… Which one is not the current obsession and craving? But these "hunger" were uniquely marked in different times. Hunger is everywhere. It’s a sense of insecurity and need that comes from human desires. Different times, different environmental factors, people’s "hunger" will inevitably appear a variety of differences. If the "hunger" is the fear of scarcity, the young generation of "hunger" is the pursuit of confusion and choice of difficulties from the material filling caused by. According to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, a new generation of "hunger" has entered the high demand of desire, is more and more extended to the spirit from the material. From each health master to various schools as well as the success of micro-blog, the circle of friends jack, they can pop, can be easily accepted, or being respected, not because they are satisfied "our physical or spiritual hunger" to a certain extent? "Hunger" levels vary, the environment is different, the desire to meet is also different. "The world famine, people consume, in troubled times, people desire only the survival instinct" hunger ", all morality, loyalty rules here if life hairspring. About China history tragedy caused by natural calamities and man-made misfortunes "people as food", almost dynasties have staged. First, read the "Xunzi" Xuchuan Jia Yau, appalled by the "summer of two, in the passenger’s Dynasty of great famine, people with food". After reading the history books about the great famine "and" food "is the" Tang Zhenguan first year, drought, large

90后的“饥饿感”:有人省吃俭用买名牌包   90后眼中的“饥饿感”   “饥饿美学”带给我们看待这个社会与自己的独特视角――小时候把拥有心爱的玩具当作人生理想,理想实现我们就很满足;长大后,当月收入超过5000元,可以买更多喜欢的东西时,却突然感觉不到快乐;当事业爱情家庭金钱什么都不缺时,我们往往缺少了方向,我们不再“饥饿”。   无处不在的“饥饿感”   不知从何时开始,家里的长辈热衷于跟我们说,今天又去哪领了免费的礼品。无须细问,我们就知道,那些推销药品或者是保健用品的商贩又来了,免费是他们的噱头。“白给的,谁不乐意要呢”,就像一到超市打折的时候,总会有人一大早就在摊位前排起长龙。在围观者心中,这或许是“捡便宜”,也可能是“中国人的劣根性”。   长辈们经历过物质极度匮乏的年代,有人说这叫“物质匮乏后遗症”。饿怕了穷怕了,那种害怕已经深入到骨髓。无论是促销还是推销,免费的噱头正好戳中了老一辈的软肋,他们的“饥饿感”源自极端的肌体饥饿。   90后也许始终不能理解这些,但同样也有一种“饥饿感”。苹果专卖店门口彻夜排队的年轻人,各式各样的VIP贵宾专属,省吃俭用也要买一个的LV包……哪一个不是当下人们所迷恋和渴求的呢?只不过这些“饥饿感”在不同时代被打上了那个独有的印记罢了。   “饥饿感”无处不在,它就是人的欲望产生的一种不安全感和需求感。时代不同,环境因素各异,人们的“饥饿感”也必然会出现各种各样的差别。如果说老一辈的“饥饿感”是对物质匮乏的恐惧,那年轻一代的“饥饿感”则是来自物质的充盈所造成的追求迷茫和选择困难。   按照马斯洛的需求层次理论,新一代的“饥饿感”已进入高层次的需求欲望,即越来越多从物质扩展到精神。从各路养生大师到各种成功流派以及微博、朋友圈的心灵鸡汤,它们能够流行,能够被人轻易接受,甚或被推崇,不正是因为它们在一定程度上满足了我们身体或者精神的某种“饥饿感”吗?   “饥饿感”层次不同,环境各异,满足的欲望也就不一样。“天下饥荒,人民相食”,身处乱世时,人们的欲望仅仅限于生存本能的“饥饿感”,一切道德、忠义规则在这里命若游丝。大概中国有历史记载以来,天灾人祸造成的“人相食”悲剧,几乎历朝历代都有上演。   最初读《荀�攸贾诩传》,惊骇于“二年夏,太祖军乘氏,大饥,人相食”。之后,所读史书关于“大饥”、“人相食”多有简述:“唐贞观元年,旱,大饥,斗粟千钱”、“元大德九年,民大饥,人相食”、“万历四十六年,旱,蝗,人相食”、“崇祯七年,大旱,赤地千里,人相食”。由饥饿导致的“人相食”文字记载可延续到公元二十世纪三十年代末。   但这些残忍、血腥的画面往往出现于乱世之时。一旦仓廪实衣食足,礼节荣辱就会恢复它该有的常态,所以从某种程度来讲,物质的丰富是原始欲望胡作非为的终结者。   回到现代社会,“饥饿感”越来越趋向于精神和欲望层面。消极的欲望,给人带来的是道德的沦丧、人格的堕落,使人走向自我毁灭。比如,被查处的各类贪官,本质上都是贪,具体到每个人,其“饥饿感”又不一样。有的人“饥饿感”是钱,因此从家里搜出来一沓沓钞票;有的人“饥饿感”是色,于是各种权色交易暗流涌动。而芸芸众生,虽没有在欲望的驱使下做出什么伤天害理之事,但追星、拜物、迷信,无一不是在展示着你我的“饥饿感”。   “饥饿感”并非全是消极。向往过更好的生活,对平等、正义、诚信、和谐等美好事物的追求,也是一种“饥饿感”。这些积极的欲望追求,能给人带来奋进的动力,使人进步,不断提升人格。   从“饥饿”中找回自己、重塑心灵   作家杨照说:“大学毕业10年后的聚会,你会发现,大家怎么会有那么多不一样;等到了20年,大家的话题就只剩你的孩子、我的孩子以及糖尿病怎么治、高血脂怎么降低了。随着年龄的增加,我们看重的东西越来越相似,独特的东西也就越来越不重要,所以不要让现在的自己过着中年人的生活。可是如今的年轻人过于早熟,他们不再‘饥饿’、冲动,不再去探寻青春是什么。其实,青春就是想尽办法去搜索、去寻找。”   这里所说的“饥饿”,既指对物质的追求,也指对自我的寻找。其实对于物质的追求并不可耻,但在当下的消费时代,本该是基本需求的生理需求被人为刺激成无穷无尽的物欲。于是,人们迷失在两条道路中,一条是永无尽头的物欲追求之路,一条则是无所适从、失去欲望与自我的无欲之路。   “工作不能代表你,银行存款不能代表你,你开的车也不能代表你,皮夹里的东西不能代表你,那该死的卡其上衣也不能代表你,你只是平凡众生中的一个。”当看到电影《搏击俱乐部》中泰勒用戏谑的语气,对正烦恼于生活无趣的杰克说出这段电影史上非常经典的台词时,很多人会问自己:那什么东西才能代表我?   这个问题谁都无法给出一个精确的回答。对于扎克伯格来说,是创造出能让10多亿人一起沟通的Facebook能代表他,还是那个不断挑战自己、保持饥饿感的男孩能代表他?对于乔布斯来说,是苹果公司能代表他,还是那份“保持饥饿,保持愚蠢”的改变世界的强烈愿望能代表他?只有当你成为那个始终“饥饿”的人之后,才知道什么能够代表自己。正如泰勒所说的台词:“不要让自己什么都有,不要做完美的人,我们要进化。”   “饥饿感”于我们而言,一方面意味着一定程度的守“缺”状态。在很多时候,我们都有求全的心理,事事追求完美。而现实是我们的精力有限,不可能所有事情都做到尽善尽美。在实现目标的过程中,我们必然要经历失败。因此,我们必须学会专注于自己的目标,不为过多的欲望和杂念占据头脑。这就是曾国藩所说的“小人求全,君子守缺”。   另一方面,“饥饿感”是一种缺乏的状态,它带来的危机意识,使我们时刻保持头脑清醒。每个人都应该坦然接纳和应对生命旅程中发生的一切,全身心地认知生命,珍惜生命,努力创造和享受心灵自由和生命的快乐,最大限度地赋予自己的生命以应有的积极意义。   不妨对生活保持一定的“饥饿感”,这样才能让我们一直幸福。(专栏撰稿 王烁) 进入【新浪财经股吧】讨论相关的主题文章:

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